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Thursday, December 23, 2010

What's in your 'goody drawer'?





It's been almost six months since I succumbed to BDSM.
Incredible experience!
My 'goody drawer' is getting full. In it there is... a set of four hemp ropes, a ten meter polyester rope, a pair of handcuffs, a leather corset, a couple of pairs fish/whale net stockings, a pair of leather boots, a pair of 13cm-platform sandals, a chocker, a pair of leather cuffs, nipple clamps, ten meter chain, three locks, two whips,  condoms, lube, rabit-vibe, remote controlled egg-vibe, cupless leather bra, a bunch of bamboo sticks varying in thickness, a rigging pulley (ok, this one is not in the drawer, but installed already in the garage), a latex skirt, a kinky keyhole latex top, two Shibari bondage books, four books on S&M...and on its way...a strap-on!
A kinky holiday season is awaiting! :-)


What's in your 'goody drawer'?



Merry Christmas !!!



In the light of this blog's  content, and because I like to have fun...here is my version of a popular Christmas tune. With it I would like to wish you all a very Kinky...oops!... Merry Christmas!
Let the season be ... extra stout!
Cheers!
:-)
On the twelfth day of Christmas, my true Master gave to me...
12 Meters Chains
11 Meters Rope
10 Bottom Spankers
9 Blow Jobs
8 Durex Condoms
7 Golden Showers
6 Leather whips
5 Ball Gags
4 Hand cuffs
3 Pin wheels
2 Nipple Clamps
And a Strap-on for his rear...

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

If I were a man and a master...

I could safely say that being a master for many would mean different things...enjoying the control you are given,  getting a kick from being so good making knots in a jiff,  getting a tingly sensation in your groin just at the look of your slave and the submissiveness in her eyes...
If I were a man and a master...I would seek the connection...
Like a photographer who speaks to his models, putting them at ease and extracting most natural, most powerful expression of their faces, my hands will speak to your body, one hand in contact at all times, to keep the conversation going...our eyes will lock at times, to reassure ME that I am still the master, and to reassure you that I am there with you and for you...
I'll tie you swiftly, not the most elaborate of knots perhaps, the beauty will be in the mix of ropes, your breathing getting heavy...and then light again...pretend random touches of your skin, passionate bites on your skin, nipples and lips...both on your mouth and down there where a rope is fit snuggly and tight...right against your clit, in such a way that a gentle pull of the rope on your waist will make you take a breath and hold it...pleasure building up...
Your arms high above your head...as if you would fly high...
Your legs spread wide apart, very wide...so you feel solid on the ground...and I can later on slide in you...if you invite me...
Breast between two bamboo sticks, nipples between another two...pain switching between just a bit too much and oh, so sweet ...
At last I put mask on your eyes...let you calm, and relax, and submit...all the way...
And then I take the whip and let it feel the shapes of your body...whipping you gently, on the left, on the right, moving slowing from your ankles to your breasts...
As the whip is playing in the air, your body swings too, left and right... To avoid it? To enjoy it better?
I don't know...I'm a man...but I'm the master...and for that...I'll simply have to have you now... 

Thursday, November 11, 2010

First bondage

This is my first bondage, with someone I knew for only 20 days. I was deeply moved by his trust in what I would do. He didn't set any rules, he didn't ask for a safeword, he simply handed me the rope and let me play. I kept it simple with the rope - legs tied together, one arm behind his back... , but then I stepped aside and watched him, avoiding eye contact, total silence...for a while...I didn't want to touch him. Finally I put my foot against his leg...and when I was about to take the photo, he reached and touched me with his hand. That moment I realized - he might have been the submissive one, but I was the dominated one...Trust could be overwhelming, Submission could be sweet, and Bondage could mean Love...

Friday, October 8, 2010

Introduction

I recently turned 38. And I received three, shall I say, interesting presents:


- one set of bondage ropes - present from myself, in the light of my recently discovered curiosity for bondage (Attagirl!)
- a pair of handcuffs -  joke-present from a friend wishing me that they help me keep my next partner around longer (I'm sure that would help!)
- a couple of Extra Stout beers - present from my partner, because we met on a beer drinking night, and because he thinks of me as Extra Stout (So sweet!)
Little did I know right then that in Dutch (yes, I live in the Netherlands, but I am not Dutch)...


STOUT[staut] adj,adv :: naughty (The New Routledge Dutch Dictionary)

 Long story short, I decided to embrace my naughty side (yes, I have it!) and start a blog about anything naughty...and related to sex... that may be occupying our minds...or at least mine :)
Let's talk about the things that many find hard to discussing, but nevertheless wonder about...
Let's lift up the curtain a little and see if we are all that different... Studies shows that people experience less stress when they know there are others who are very much alike them.
Do I need to say more?...Or shall I get naughty... ;-)